It leaves some women to feel shame that they want their man to be assertive in the sexual relationship and be a leader.
In viewing the movie, my analysis is that it presented as a story in which two people are exploring what they know and do not know about how to express emotions, thoughts, fear, frustration, care, and love through the vessel of human relational sexual expression.
These pointers will help you emerge as one in both places.
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